Members of the Asian American Student Union and Black Student Union spent Thursday night in the Multicultural Student Center discussing various issues faced by minorities on the University of Wisconsin campus.
Topics included interracial dating, relations between minorities on campus, stereotypes and Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender issues within the community.
“Asian Americans and Africans on this campus — there is not a lot of interaction, especially when it comes to student organizations,” AASU co-founder and UW senior Duc Luu said. “Socially, too, there seems to be a disparity between our groups more than others.”
While Luu said he believed there was a little bit of intimidation and apprehension at first, he said the conversation produced by the two organizations was very valuable.
“I thought it worked together well and that’s why we came,” Luu said. “There were issues to address.”
Students who attended the meeting broke into four groups, where they voiced opinions and concerns on the different topics.
UW senior Phillip Lee and sophomore Althea Miller led the interracial dating group, which covered topics such as boundaries in relationships, differing standards of beauty and acceptance by society and families.
While several participants said they had been involved in an interracial relationship, many also said they had felt direct pressure from their friends or family to stick to their own cultural group.
The four groups later came back together to discuss different trends raised in their discussions, although dating remained a common topic for the rest of the evening.
UW senior Avery Jackson emphasized that she supports interracial relationships as she considers them natural, but she is uncomfortable with the idea that people sometimes date others solely because of their race.
“I find it troublesome if people are dating someone because of their race,” Jackson said. “I know it’s hard to believe, but it does happen. I think it’s natural, I think it’s OK, but I think it’s natural for me to raise an eyebrow.”
She went on to say dating within her own race is often preferred because “they can relate to me on things no one else can” because of a shared background.
Japanese American UW graduate Erica Nakanishi-Stanis said it hurts how difficult it is to find partners who come from the same background as her.
“I’m not going find that common experience,” she said. “I can’t find another half-white, half-Asian person to date. It’s just probably not going to happen, and to know I’m making other people uncomfortable by choosing who I date, it just makes you feel really trapped.”
In the end, UW freshman James Gavins pushed the idea that simply disregarding boundaries created by families and society can make dating easier for minorities.
“Life is so much easier once you don’t care about that,” Gavins said. “Once you realize they’re biases, it’s so much easier. I can move out, I can get a job, I can live. If you just [be] you and [girls] like you, that’s that.”






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Is there a White American Student Union?
Imagine the bickbats if a white were to say:
She went on to say dating within her own race is often preferred because �they can relate to me on things no one else can� because of a shared background.
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yes, there’s a white student union. it’s called campus and the world at large.
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I completely agree with Ezyk kbs!
Honestly I do not think anyone would care if a “white” were to say that. The reality is that white folks have a very, very different and less oppressive history than black folks in the United States, so I completely understand why someone with such an oppressive history, who still suffers from that oppression TODAY would feel more comfortable with someone of their own race. And depending on your ethnicity within your white race (Irish, Italian, etc., etc.) someone from the same ethnic background IS likely to be able to relate to you on lots of things. Like I said, I don’t think anyone would care. You must not be a student of color.
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I completely agree with ezky kbs. Don’t only look at the present campus, but check out the history of this “liberal” campus lol. You would be surprised, or maybe not.
To the Anonymous comment above, it is fair and reasonable to expect someone with an oppressive history and present in the Americas would want to to be able to openly and honestly share what that experience is like with their significant other without having to explain their feelings. The reality is that people of the same race and ethnicity often have a shared experience of not only oppression in the Americas, but also with other cultural experiences such as the importance of family, celebrations, child rearing styles, etc. It is also a reality that people of the different races and ethnicities do not necessarily share these cultural experiences, so if someone prefers to share these experiences with someone whose experiences are similar to theirs you shouldn’t have a problem with that.
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No one would care if a white person said that because there is nothing wrong with wanting to share experiences with someone who you believe to have a shared background.
You must be of the majority race.
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ha ha. kudos to ezky kbs!
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White american student union? blah blah blah… go complain and cry some more